Category: life
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one year off, another on
I started this blog back in September of 2023, and now it’s April of 2025. In the event that my life started to shift and my creative mind fell a bit flat, I never posted a single piece in 2024. As I am now 22, I’m only a bit wiser than I was at 20.…
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23 from 2023
A year can be a long time, or it can go by in flash- as if it was suddenly the start of the spring, and next thing you know it’s Christmas. 2023 was one of the longest years of my life. I was happy, tired, grateful, isolated, resilient, and broken. I think years that challenge…
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being smart, but not smart enough
Finals week is here. Luckily, I had 3 back-to-back finals this past Monday, so I’m done with this stressful week from hell. Thinking about everything that leads up to this week each semester inspired me to write this piece. The Beginning Growing up, I was always considered to be smart. I remember in school always…
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the joy of missing out
I feel like there has been this increase of pressure in society when it comes to always being on top of everything, doing the absolute most at the exact time it’s needed, and being present at everything you possibly can. I think we’ve all fallen victim to this idea. There is a certain type of…
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going nowhere
I had little to no motivation the last two weeks, hence why I had no new posts. I’m not really sure anyone entirely cares but I felt a little guilty. So hello again. I like to write about all of the things I don’t talk about. I think sometimes I find peace in writing about…
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to be a woman
To be a woman is to ‘this’… to be a woman is to ‘that’… blah blah blah. The age old question of “What really makes a woman a woman?” gets me every time. I could go on and on for hours about it. There’s this Margaret Atwood quote I’ve had circulating my notes app for…
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my relationship with fashion
Most girls dream of looking just like their Pinterest boards. I am one of those girls. However, getting older has shown me the difference between wanting to copy my pins and wanting to be the girls in them. I started getting more into fashion and clothes around 9th grade when I entered high school. I…
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my ocean ink
“Get it where the judge can’t see it”- My Father’s only rule when it came to a tattoo. This is quite a fitting post for today since it’s World Mental Health Day. You’ll understand the correlation in a little while. Around two weeks before my 19th birthday, I decided to book myself a tattoo appointment.…
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the art of being awkward
I tell myself things are ‘not that serious’ at least once a week. The absolute chaos that goes on in my head when I think too hard or deeply about something should really be studied. And it’s not just that I’m an over-thinker when it comes to some things, I just fail to put situations…
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something new
Being a transfer student, I thought my fresh start was going to be that second semester of Freshman year. As it turned out, my fresh start was my first semester of Junior year. Not exactly how I imagined things but either way, I’m still okay with it. Doing new things has never really been my…